I AM BACK!

My sincere apologies to all. No excuses for my disappearance from this page... It's either I'm busy or plain lazy... So her goes my story...

"ITCH TO GET HITCHED"

My good friend ZUL CINA decided to a make shocking announcement on the changes he's making in his life...GET MARRIED! Tak ada angin tak ada ribut terus nak kahwin.. What's happening??

So we the Boyz decided to have a talk with Zul. A lot of questions ran in my mind when he told me the news... Is he ready? Financially?... Is she the ONE?... His whims & fancies... Her whims & fancies... Many questions need to be raised..

Zul claimed that he has already done his calculations with his partner & it seem that he is ready... The name's SITI HAJJAR (hope I got that right... My apologies to Siti if it's not) From his answers he is determined to marry this girl.... Wow!!

Ali's main concern is Zul's financial stability. On that part I shall not elaborate... You guys can ask Ali if you nak Kay-Poh... OK... For the emotional bit Ali left it to me to do the probing..

My main concern is whether he is sure that she is the one for him.. How about her parents... What do they think of this decision of hers.. Has Zul really know Siti? One more thing Zul "DAH SUNAT KE BELUM?" (Sorry I just have to put that in)

The Boyz on the other hand is very much concern on his financial status... Their question "If Zul can't even mange himself how the hell is he going to manage another person in his life" Think Zul... Think!!

After 2 hrs of talking, we concluded that his mind is set on the MARRIAGE.. Nothing on this earth can make him change his mind... We as friends just have to accept his decision... And be HAPPY FOR HIM!!!

After a few days Tina & I went to Choa Chu Kang to see Siti's parents regarding the selling & buying of property. They are interested to sell their house... Tina manage to talk about the wedding plans of Siti & Zul to her parents. We got quite a bit of unexpected version of the story from the parents. The parents are happy with Zul...

We went to Bukit Panjang to meet up with Ali & the Boyz.. Zul came later with Siti. Zul had this imoression that we are going to throw questions at Siti as he already had his time with us.. Little did he realise that it was going to be him again... Poor Chap!!

There was one point being brought up by Siti that disturbed me. Zul claimed that since he made his own decision to convert to Islam, he doesn't need to consult anyone regarding his decision to get married..

A tight SLAP on Ali's face. I know how it feels. My feelings to you my Brother.. What was Zul thinking when he said that? I take my hats off you for the decision to convert.. But this... I don't know what to say... Who do you look for when you were in trouble? ALI!! Then why did you look for him? Go settle your own problem!! As you claimed. Selfish BRAT!!!

He's your problem solver? And it seems that Zul has been telling a different story to us & another to Siti and family. Please Zul get your story right & consistent.. Be a MAN.. Sometimes the truth hurts but it will make you a better person if you learn from them..

The latest I heard from Ali is that both decided to bring forward till April next year. See how fickle can they be... Anyway it is a good decision.. More time to prepare, save, coordinate...

Any how, since it is his decision to get married we have to respect that. We as friends just want you to be happy. Just remember that you always have us whenever you need a helping hand.. REMEMBER THAT ZUL!!

APPRECIATE YOUR FRIENDS!!

OK folks. That's all I've got to say.. Any harsh words I apologise.. Till next time.. CHIAO!!!